Saturday, December 27, 2008

On Sabbatical

Sabbatical (n):
A rest from work, a hiatus.


December 15th was my last day at work. I left, voluntarily, and have nothing lined up work-wise.

I decided to take a month off, mostly because I have been going non-stop since high school with work and college (then grad school), but also because I want time to figure out what I want to be when I grow up.

Me time (as Amy Bowers-Yilmazer would call it in college during my junior year abroad in England). I plan on relaxing and doing some volunteer work here in San Diego.

If something does pop up during my down time, I'm going to see if they can delay my start date until January 15th so that I can have a full month off. (And because we're going to be in Disney for the first week of January with my parents, and brother's family.)

John's been wonderfully supportive, and so far my time off has been fantastic.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas! (2008)

Apparently this is the year for great, true holiday stories and pics to come my way from friends. First the Thanksgiving Letter Story, now this picture below, care of one of my college friends.

To help spread the holiday cheer, here's a super-cute pic of a her son:

Best. Santa pic. Ever.

Merry Christmas to all!

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Xander Meets Rowan

Introducing Rowan

As they say in the movies:

"And Introducing...
Lady Rowan of Finnegans Wake!"


I picked up this gorgeous little girl this morning, and now she's napping quietly on the couch while Xander tries to figure out what the hell to do with this 12 pound living squeak toy. He's currently serving a time-out upstairs for ungentlemanly conduct.

To deconstruct the name:
  • Lady because my dad suggested it and has a sentimental value to him
  • Rowan is Irish, meaning "red haired" (she's a fawn, or red, boxer)
  • I was stuck on the name Finnegan, but as so many of you kindly pointed out, Finnegan's a boy's name. Being the determined (or stubborn, if you read my grandmother's eulogy) person that I am, I still wanted to incorporate that name, so Finnegans Wake is a reference to the Irish author James Joyce's work.
Having said all that, her call name will be simply Rowan.


So there you have it! I'll keep you posted with pics and other news as she gets bigger. (I took video of her and Xander meeting today...)

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Name Update #1: We're Down to 4!

So we're down to the following four names for Xander's sister, based on both online and phone votes:
  • Finnegan (Finn/Finney for short)
  • Rowan
  • Molly
  • Willow
Vote away! :-)

Puppy Needs New Name

Xander has a new sister! She's a red boxer, and so cute! We pick her up tomorrow, but we need help naming her. So far, here are everyone's suggestions:
  • Bryn
  • Molly
  • Roja
  • Xena
  • Willow
  • Jaqueline Sassypants McGee
On a dog name site (think baby name site for dogs) here's some cool Irish ones I like:
  • Finnegan (Finn, for short)
  • Rowan (red haired)
Please vote in the poll!

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Happy Birthday Xander!

Today is X-Man's 3rd birthday. And he's still all puppy. (Don't believe the people who tell you labs calm down after 2-3 years. Those people are liars. Filthy, stinking liars.)

To reward Xander for his good behavior, we're in the process of adopting a little sister for him, so he can see what's it's like to have someone jumping all over you 24/7.

Monday, December 15, 2008

Celebrating an Eco-Friendly Holiday

The winter holidays are the perfect time to start thinking green. This time of year, Americans produce an extra two billion pounds of garbage per week. Scary, huh? But don’t worry, you don’t have to add a whole lifestyle makeover to your “to do” list.


Even small changes can have a big environmental impact. Here are seven easy ways you can celebrate the season while doing your part to make it a greener, more environmentally responsible holiday:

1. Choose a Living Tree
Although a fake Christmas tree may save you money over the years, sooner or later it will wind up in a landfill. Your best bet? A potted pine you can plant once the season is over. But if you go with a cut tree, that’s okay. Just recycle it after the holidays. Many municipalities offer Christmas tree recycling programs; visit Earth911.com to find one near you.

2. Light Up with LED
Hang LED (light-emitting diode) lights, instead of the typical incandescent bulbs. They cost a little more to buy, but LED lights use 80% to 90% less power than conventional mini bulbs. Then run them for only a few hours in the evening to save on resources (and your electric bill).

3. Green Your Décor
When it comes to decorating, let this be your mantra: “reuse, repurpose, recycle.” Instead of purchasing any new decorations, use items you already have. Strings of popcorn and cranberries make beautiful, vintage-looking garlands that can later be composted. For ornaments, hang gingerbread or sugar cookies, or everyday items you have around the house, such as cookie cutters, toy cars, Barbie accessories—even jewelry.

4. Give Earth Conscious Gifts
Think of all the consumables used to produce, package, ship, and sell the merchandise you find on store shelves. That takes a huge toll on the environment. This year, why not give homemade gifts or ones purchased from local artists? Some homemade gift ideas include baked goods, recipes, hand sewn or knitted items, and coupons (e.g. free babysitting, homecooked meal, etc.).

5. Wrap With Recyclables
To cut back on paper waste, wrap gifts in newspaper, comic pages, brown paper shopping bags, and old sheet music. You could also decorate old shoe or hat boxes and food containers you no longer use. Tie them up with shoelaces, tape measures, yarn, string, or anything you come across in your junk drawer that could fit around a package. Save gift bags and wrappings given to you by others for next year’s gift-giving.

6. Send Green Greetings
Another way to reduce waste is to mail holiday postcards, instead of the standard card and envelope. If you want to be particularly eco-savvy, cut the decorative fronts off of cards you’ve received and mail them to others as postcards (just not to the people who sent them to you!), or email your holiday letter and attach some photos.

7. Cook with Organic Foods
Shop at your local farmers market or natural food store and prepare your holiday meals with locally grown, organic foods. Locally grown foods don’t need to be transported as far, which cuts down on greenhouse gas emissions. And organically-grown fruits and vegetables aren’t treated with potentially harmful synthetic pesticides that are bad for both you and the earth.

Finally, make it a point this month to donate your time and money to local charities. It is common in tough economic times to scale back and even stop charitable giving, which is why charities around the country are having a particularly hard time right now collecting what they need to help the less fortunate.

Giving back is part of living an eco and socially-conscious lifestyle, plus it just feels good. So get out there with your kids and participate in charity drives, volunteer, or make a donation to your favorite cause. Your holidays will be a much richer experience when you take time out to help others.

by Laurel Hostetler, Managing Editor
Health Dimensions

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Jon Stewart on Gay Marriage

Monday, December 8, 2008

Mom-Mom's Eulogy

Here is the eulogy I gave at my grandmother's funeral today, along with a few photos I took.
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Such a strong, strong woman.
Today is our chance to say thank you to Mildred Vichko for being a great mother to her children and a wonderful grandmother to us all. Today we celebrate Mom-Mom, as so many of us called her, and many of her admirable traits.

Truth be told, I had a difficult time putting them all into writing. No matter how hard I try, it just didn’t seem to do her justice. Here’s a strong woman who’s been living independently for the past 18 years ever since Tu-Tu, the love of her life, passed away. I still remember the gleam in her eye when she would tell me the story of her and Tu-Tu’s first kiss on the roller coaster at Burlington Island.

I’m sure each and every one of you here today has something to share about how my grandmother touched your life; a story to tell.

For me, her determination stands out most. Some might use the word stubborn, but since this is a quality I proudly got from her, I am sticking with determined. When she set her mind to something, she always got her way...

Philadelphia Phillies phlower arrangement.
Just ask her sons Bobby or Billy about the leaves in her back yard, or Ronnie about the leaves in her gutters. Daughter Kathy would then follow up their work by power washing her sidewalk.

You have never seen a cleaner yard in Burlington County than 6 Beechwood Ave. When autumn came, she was out there almost every day raking leaves and picking up twigs. And when it got to be too much, that’s when her kids would be called in to help out. Not so much called in, as summoned.

One of her great passions was her beloved Philadelphia Phillies. Leave it to Mom-Mom to wait until AFTER the Phillies finally won the World Series to pass away. Now that’s determination! In 2006, at the age of 90, the baseball club named her their Phan of the Year. As a fan for 75 years, she was so tickled by their decision! They sent her down to the Phils spring training in Florida.

Unfortunately, she fell ill during the trip and had to have emergency surgery. In true form, she kept fussing the whole time, saying that she ruined our trip. I told her she most certainly didn’t ruin it, but she wouldn’t hear otherwise. Our four day vacation became 11 days, with my mom and I running back and forth from the hotel to the hospital until Mom-Mom was able to fly home.

All the boys.
Last month, I was talking to Mom-Mom on the phone, and she apologized again for ruining our trip. I told her she hadn’t, but that in fact she’d given me a gift: 11 days in Florida with her and my mother. 11 days away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life, spending it with my two favorite women in the world.

Funny thing is: Mom-Mom didn’t differentiate much between blood relatives and other people she considered family. There were her daughters-in-law, Bev, Leslie and Katie, who never were merely “in-laws” to her – they were her daughters as well. Son-in-law Jay was her fourth son.

She had her church family, which granddaughter Michele would take her to every Sunday. And she had her neighbors, John and Mary… and their children Brian and John, who affectionately called Mom-Mom “Nana Midge.”

For you see, Mom-Mom, your greatest gift was your ability to bring us all together. Whether it be the pool parties at their house, with all of the grandchildren there: Michelle, Kelly, Jared, Tim, and me. Or taking us on camping trips in their RV. Or even making us root beer floats when we didn’t feel well.
Carnations on her casket.

Back then your greatest gift was your ability to bring us all together, and you do that today, as well.

There are leaves in the yard, but you are not here to rake them. There are Phils games on TV, but you are not here to view them. There’s a wedding to attend on Saturday, but you are not here to see Jared and Jennifer walk down the aisle together.

You are not here in person...but you are here in our hearts. We all grieve today for we lost a great lady. But I know she is heaven now with Tu-Tu, Ronnie, and Leslie. I’m sure she already has a to-do list for Tu-Tu.

And I know she’s happy and content with what she left us – namely, the leaves. Speaking of which: Bobby, Billy, can you head over to the house after the funeral and take care of those?

Related post:
Why Grandmothers Rock, and the Importance of Thank You Notes

My Flickr albums of Mom-Mom:

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Philadelphia Phillies Phan of the Year Passes Away

She just also happened to be my grandmother, and a great one at that. It wasn't sudden, but it still sucks and hurts. Yesterday was her birthday. The funeral's Monday...I'll post my eulogy after the service.


I nominated my grandmother as the Philadelphia Phillies Phan of the Year in 2006 and she won! They flew her down to Spring Training in Clearwater, FL as her prize. Me, my mom, and my friend Mary went with her.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Mamma's Got A New Ride

BMW X5.

2006, only 19k miles.

I like.